Well, I Clanks defense, he did say IF you were the Dan he was thinking of. So since you were not that guy, why are you so mad? I have learned the hard way that many times what is posted on forums does not always come across as the poster intended. Since readers do not have any visual or oral cues to work with, as one would have in a face to face situation, it can lead to much misinterpretation.
As to not commenting on YoDude's post, I was simply waiting for others to respond as I told him in a PM.
It is unfortunate that you have decided to leave the team. I wish you the best.
I think this is where one would say, This has been a teachable moment for us.....